Why did people give me such poor and rude answers when I asked about me and my gf?

i just read the ? you had orignally asked...the reason why is because she loves you even though u cheated and all that..she still loves you...some girls are like that they think that they will never find another person and they won't care how much the guy screws up they don't want to lose that guy. Ik you are worried about her safety and all but the best thing to do is GENTLY break up with her and do it slowly..start to detach yourself from her life in steps..maybe just let her know your there as a FRIEND and not romantically. These situations are difficult to deal with maybe you should take her to counseling? (sp) she sounds like she's going through a hard time maybe it's smething in her family life that makes her really clingy (not meant in a bad way) she just doesn't see herself as a successful women and thinks she won't be able to find another guy..just take everything slow with her